Post by personalprofound on Feb 22, 2011 11:00:56 GMT -5
I have interviewed an instructor from RSD so be sure to stay updated at my website to read some quality stuff.
www.personalprofound.com
Here is the third interview, this time with VisionsDivine. I hope you will enjoy it! Remember to check out the question thread as well.
Everyone that's on this journey of getting better with women has a story. Where does your's start? Where are you now? How did you get there?
I'm not really sure if anyone can get better with women, from my experience of going out to clubs since the end of 2006, 2 years before I discovered the community, I don't think I have got any better in making girls like me.
I actually think girls like you as a default, and everything you do or fail to do adds up after that. But for me, you can always start back from 0.
What is your vision for yourself and what actions do you take, and specifically what rituals do you have, that moves you towards that vision? Has your vision changed drastically since you joined the community?
My vision
Very personal my friend, it has a lot of social conditioning in it for sure, but most of it comes down to the way I want to shape my perspective to life in a way that helps me deal with things as they come on a daily basis.
Rituals
Before I go to bed I imagine with clarity what I want and how can I make it happen. Then when the opportunity comes I do not hesitate, whether that means spending all my money and travelling thousands of miles away all of the sudden leaving everything behind.
I have done this more than a few times and is always something I never end up regreting.
The only set backs is that many of these adventures have been short term rewards, which at age 25 keeps me in age 18 conditions, I'm in a point where I need to focus in the long term rewards with more audacity.
When you started out, what motivated you? What motivates you now?
I was lead by emotions, I wanted to feel in control, to have independence, to have abundance, basically all the natural instincs you are born with.
Right now a big part is lead by instincs as well, but I'm better informed and I can make my choices through a wider perspective. There is a big relief of stress when you know why you are doing something than when you just do it because you think you have to.
How did you clear sticking points, if you're supposed to be going out and not thinking, but at the same time working on your sticking points? How do you square that circle?
To be honest many of my sticky points have been solved by lending my reality to other people with more experience that have accomplish things I want for myself. It doesn't matter what area we are talking about, there is always someone else that have discovered calculus before you are trying to figure out arithmetic.
However one thing is allowing influence to enter and another very different is to hold it in. The world we live right now offers things that were dreamed by our ancestors. We even have the luxury to access things we don't even need.
What I have learned from others is a reflect of my own personality and of my own belief system because you can only learn what you want to learn, and you can only discover what you want to discover, whether it is usable or not.
Now, one thing is having the materials and a very different thing is making the building. It is a choice you make and it requires your own creativity.
What is most important to focus on day by day in order to develop rock solid inner game?
The fact that you don't need to develop solid inner game. Solid inner game is a choice you make every moment. What's keeping you from accessing it is not giving yourself permission.
Most of my problems usually come from a lack of clarity, when I'm not sure what I want or when I'm not sure why I want it. When clarity comes problems get solved automatically because then all I need is to do is to give me that permission. At least that's my experience.
However I admit there is a skillset out there, but that's just for those who wants to go nuts on it, you can do just fine without it. The question is always how much you want it.
How do you concretely go about implementing whatever you read about personal development and pick-up, to your life?
I look in myself and ask if that's something I want for myself, if I want it, I do stupid things to make it happen, many times it involves humilliation, but it usually pays good. There is nothing more concrete than just doing it. The good thing about pickup is that it has a lot of short term rewards.
www.personalprofound.com
Here is the third interview, this time with VisionsDivine. I hope you will enjoy it! Remember to check out the question thread as well.
Everyone that's on this journey of getting better with women has a story. Where does your's start? Where are you now? How did you get there?
I'm not really sure if anyone can get better with women, from my experience of going out to clubs since the end of 2006, 2 years before I discovered the community, I don't think I have got any better in making girls like me.
I actually think girls like you as a default, and everything you do or fail to do adds up after that. But for me, you can always start back from 0.
What is your vision for yourself and what actions do you take, and specifically what rituals do you have, that moves you towards that vision? Has your vision changed drastically since you joined the community?
My vision
Very personal my friend, it has a lot of social conditioning in it for sure, but most of it comes down to the way I want to shape my perspective to life in a way that helps me deal with things as they come on a daily basis.
Rituals
Before I go to bed I imagine with clarity what I want and how can I make it happen. Then when the opportunity comes I do not hesitate, whether that means spending all my money and travelling thousands of miles away all of the sudden leaving everything behind.
I have done this more than a few times and is always something I never end up regreting.
The only set backs is that many of these adventures have been short term rewards, which at age 25 keeps me in age 18 conditions, I'm in a point where I need to focus in the long term rewards with more audacity.
When you started out, what motivated you? What motivates you now?
I was lead by emotions, I wanted to feel in control, to have independence, to have abundance, basically all the natural instincs you are born with.
Right now a big part is lead by instincs as well, but I'm better informed and I can make my choices through a wider perspective. There is a big relief of stress when you know why you are doing something than when you just do it because you think you have to.
How did you clear sticking points, if you're supposed to be going out and not thinking, but at the same time working on your sticking points? How do you square that circle?
To be honest many of my sticky points have been solved by lending my reality to other people with more experience that have accomplish things I want for myself. It doesn't matter what area we are talking about, there is always someone else that have discovered calculus before you are trying to figure out arithmetic.
However one thing is allowing influence to enter and another very different is to hold it in. The world we live right now offers things that were dreamed by our ancestors. We even have the luxury to access things we don't even need.
What I have learned from others is a reflect of my own personality and of my own belief system because you can only learn what you want to learn, and you can only discover what you want to discover, whether it is usable or not.
Now, one thing is having the materials and a very different thing is making the building. It is a choice you make and it requires your own creativity.
What is most important to focus on day by day in order to develop rock solid inner game?
The fact that you don't need to develop solid inner game. Solid inner game is a choice you make every moment. What's keeping you from accessing it is not giving yourself permission.
Most of my problems usually come from a lack of clarity, when I'm not sure what I want or when I'm not sure why I want it. When clarity comes problems get solved automatically because then all I need is to do is to give me that permission. At least that's my experience.
However I admit there is a skillset out there, but that's just for those who wants to go nuts on it, you can do just fine without it. The question is always how much you want it.
How do you concretely go about implementing whatever you read about personal development and pick-up, to your life?
I look in myself and ask if that's something I want for myself, if I want it, I do stupid things to make it happen, many times it involves humilliation, but it usually pays good. There is nothing more concrete than just doing it. The good thing about pickup is that it has a lot of short term rewards.