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Post by jlw on Mar 17, 2011 19:08:15 GMT -5
Quick update: Yesterday I was in class with the same girl as I've been talking about. She handed me this note in class: "So I just wanted to let you know I'm wearing some very sexy lingerie under my dress. I thought I'd give you something to think about until the end of class." I just sort of laughed about it and blew it off. I told her I was going to give the note to another girl in the class and we joked about that for a bit. Class ended and she told me she wanted to come over. I said I wasn't really sure because I had a lot of work to do. She texted me at around 9:30 PM. This is what she said: Girl: Did u finish ur work Me: Almost done. Cleaning up my room in a bit. How did your crit go? [she's an architecture student and she had a big mid-term critique on her project today] Girl: I haven't presented my work yet. I'm up in 5 minutes. Don't get rid of the sand in the bed!!!
Me: Already washed the sheets. You'll have to stop by the beach and get some more
Girl: okay i'll be done in a bit
[several minutes pass]
Me: How did it go?
Girl: Lol omg i'll tell you in a bit. I'm on my way over [your house].
So she basically invited herself over to my house. We had sex. Her lingerie was indeed sexy. And that's pretty much all there is to say.
Just as a side note, I had sex with her using a condom (obviously wanna be safe). Only problem is I have a lot of trouble busting with a condom on. I didn't really even get to finish. Whatever. There's always next time.
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Post by Two Step on Mar 20, 2011 10:40:33 GMT -5
hahhahahaha
even though this would resulted in you not getting laid i would of loved if you had said
ew gross
and walked away when she gave you the note
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Post by acmra1 on Mar 20, 2011 12:20:12 GMT -5
haha lmao at this ^^^^....
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Post by jlw on Apr 4, 2011 11:15:48 GMT -5
So things have been going smoothly with the girl I've been having sex with. We'll refer to the girl I'm having sex with as the Filipino girl.
I met another really cute girl at school. We'll call her the Indian girl. We've been hanging out on occasion. I haven't made a move yet and we have hung out twice. I just haven't had the chance to isolate her since we're usually hanging out with friends (we know each other through social circle). I was talking to CEO Arob in the CF chatroom and he advised me to simply have a "movie night" with her at my house. I normally would just take her out to a bar, but she doesn't turn 21 until October. Getting into bars in San Francisco is really, really hard, so I think my best bet is just inviting her over, having a glass of wine or two, and sealing the deal while watching a Spongebob Squarepants marathon.
One tricky thing is that the girl I'm having sex with is friends with the Indian girl. I'm trying to figure out how to do this without either of them finding out about each other....It should be interesting.
I had asked another different girl to come to this dance party that my school was organizing and I was planning to go to. I was going to go to it regardless of whether or not she came.
When I told her she should come with me, she was like, "Uhhh I have a ton of homework to do but I might stop by and show up for a short while. We'll see."
I took that as a "no".
I ended up getting really sick on Saturday and didn't go to the dance party. It turned out she had showed up and was asking for me. Oh well. She should have given a definite answer.
So that's a quick update for you guys.
I haven't been going out and hitting on girls that much, simply because I've been meeting a lot of girls on campus.
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Post by MassiveRay on Apr 4, 2011 11:58:24 GMT -5
YOU ARE A GAY!!!
For 2 reasons, first you shouldn't try to fuck the other girl without the first finding out, that would men you were doing something wrong, you are a single guy, you can fuck as many girls as you want.
Second, there is a certain sense of getting lucky in your reports, like the girl with the note, you basically had her in class when she gave you the note, then you almost talked yourself out of it, what was with all the asking how her project went, if she wasn't horny you wouldn't have got laid here.
Don't be scared of rejection man, if you want a girl invite her over to your place and fuck what everyone else thinks or says about it.
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Post by jlw on Apr 7, 2011 17:44:38 GMT -5
For 2 reasons, first you shouldn't try to fuck the other girl without the first finding out, that would men you were doing something wrong, you are a single guy, you can fuck as many girls as you want. You are absolutely right. I agree. I had a lot of work to do. Obviously school comes first. Girls second. I didn't really care either way if she came over because I had a ton of work to do. In fact, I almost would have preferred that she didn't, but she invited herself over anyway. You're right. I agree.
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Post by jlw on Apr 9, 2011 12:24:40 GMT -5
Night game:
Ended up going to a club with a bunch of friends. Made eyes with a sexy cougar. A white sweatshirt landed on top of us (someone must have thrown it onto the dance floor) and she looked at me and we naturally struck up a short conversation. We talked for a while about random crap. I made strong eye contact and realized that she was easily 35+ years old. Not bad for a 35 year old. In very good shape. But damn, I wasn't sure if I wanted to do this. She was good looking but just....older. I was in my head too much thinking about how old she was rather than either cutting my losses and leaving, or going into it 100% and going for the pull.
I really need to stop flip-flopping, and commit to a decision. I think the solution to this is to get the balls to hit on hotter girls so I don't constantly deliberate in my head, "Do I want to do this?"
The interaction went well. I explained how I was with my bisexual female friends who are kind of into me. They were arguing with each other in a corner and I pointed them out to the sexy cougar. She asked me if they were fighting over me (as a joke), and I totally ran with it and was like, "Yeah, I'm pretty sure that's what it's actually about. Look, they are looking at us now! You're worsening the situation! Lets move over here!"
I moved her about 6 feet over out of the bisexual friends' view. We kept dancing. Made good eye contact. Slowly kino'ed her by grabbing her lower back and hips. Went for the grind but she kept making conversation. I let it slide since the conversation was sexual (we were talking about female-on-female contact). After a while I went for the grind and she accepted, but then pulled away shortly after mentioning her friend. She was out with her friend who just broke up with her bf and I wasn't sure how to entertain her.
I basically lost interest because I had decided that I didn't want to go home with some gnarly 35 year old. I am 99% sure that I could have pulled her if my heart was in it. But it wasn't because I was incredibly sober.
FIRST DAY GAME COLD APPROACH OMGHOLYSHITWWTFBBQ
So there was a cute girl on the bus the morning after the club with the cougar. I sat right next to her.
Me: What the hell day is it? (with a slightly dumbfounded look, grabbing my head) Her: Hahahaha rough night? Me too. It's Saturday. Me: Thank God.
That was basically my opener. I think I could have been more high energy about the entire conversation. We talked about what each of us did last night and how we were both going home to get new clothes and then go to work. She was cute as hell. I had a solid conversation but it wasn't stellar. It was more idle chit chat than super-charged, super-funny conversation. But I kept the convo going and it went well. She was at least somewhat into it.
I was acting too tired and shit. I should have been talking about my crazy night. I also was worrying too much about things to say in order to impress her. I should have just been natural, not trying so hard to make her laugh or be sexual. Just let it flow naturally. That's really the key. It's incredibly cliche, but being confident enough to know that you're awesome and not have to impress anyone is really important.
She lives RIGHT BY MY HOUSE. The interaction went well. I introduced myself at the end but DIDNT GO FOR THE NUMBER CLOSE CUZ IM A FUCKING CHODE. At the end, she asked me AGAIN what my name was, probably hoping that I'd ask for her phone number. I didn't because I'm a loser. BUT I did approach, and I think next time I cold approach during the day, I'll be able to get a number out of it.
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Post by jlw on Apr 10, 2011 18:32:09 GMT -5
GAAAAAHHHHHHHHH
Pancake party FR (Epic fail but at least I learned something)
So in retrospect, this little get-together was a fail from the start. My wing and I were going to have a night of drinking and making pancakes in the comfort of some lady friends' home. It was my target's house (the Indian girl who I mentioned in another post, I think post #18).
It was me, my wingman, my Indian girl target, and her two cute roommates.
In retrospect, I should have just invited the target to my house instead of have this stupid social get together which has friend zone written all over it.
But that point aside, I was super high energy and confident and funny blah blah blah the whole night, being my usual self. I was playfully flirting with the target. I flirted with the two other girls a bit mainly for the sake of eliciting the target's competitive nature (we all know how easily girls get jealous).
Things were going well. We were all a bit drunk and joking around and just having a good time, overall.
We ended up playing "Hide and Seek" with all the lights off. I have NO IDEA how the fuck we ended up playing Hide 'n Seek. But we did.
I hid with my target a few times, sometimes in very very close contact with her. I flirted with her a bit while we were both hiding in a closet. I thought about kissing her right there, but restrained myself. I wanted to build up some tension. I wanted to get her a little bit more into it first. I could tell her heart wasn't in it 100%
Time went on, and after a while we stopped playing and had a big group discussion for about an hour or so.
Indian girl and I were both on the love seat together. She laid down while the rest of the group continued talking. I touched her hips and the side of her body while she was laying down. I was sitting up.
After a while, we were ready to sleep.
SHIIIIIITTTT she was going to bed and I hadn't made a move yet.
Everyone went to sleep. It was just her and I. I needed to think of something FAST before she went into her room and fell asleep, thus closing the window of opportunity.
I said to her, "Hey Indian Girl, I am really tense and I need a back massage. Help me out here."
She said, "Okay, well I can walk on your back. People seem to like that."
I said, "WALK on my back?! Well okay, I guess I'll give it a shot."
We were in the living room. She began to walk on my back. I began critiquing her technique saying things she needed to change.
For example, I said to her, "No, try and focus more on the middle of the back", or, "Put less pressure when you step on the shoulders.", or "This whole walking thing isn't working so well. There isn't any control in your touch."
Finally, acting playfully annoyed, I said, "Here, how about I show you how to give a REAL back massage"
She said, "Okay, hold on let me get a sweater from my room." She left the living room.
I followed her into her room and let her put her sweater on. When she was getting ready to go back into the living room, I said, "Hey, let's just do it in here."
I grabbed her arm and motioned her towards the bed. I told her to lay on her stomach. I laid over top of her. Or, it was more like I was straddling over top of her while she was laying on her stomach on the bed...
I explained to her what I was doing and how to give a proper back massage (I started from the top of the neck along the spine and slowly worked my way down).
After a while I was basically groping her ass. I wasn't getting much of a reaction from her. I kept going. About two or three minutes passed and she's like, "Do you want me to do you now? This feels really good but I'm kind of tired."
The "kind of tired part" rang a big alarm in my head. She wasn't into it. Shit. I decided I'd keep plowing.
I let her massage my back in the way that I taught her. Instead of straddling me, she stood on her knees to the side of my body. Another bad sign. She was afraid to get more physical with me. I didn't care. I wanted to make this happen.
After a bit, I told her to stop. We had some small talk for about 30 seconds. I locked eyes with her for about 2 seconds and went in for the kiss. She turned her cheek.
She said, "I can't. While I don't have a boyfriend right now, I'm kind of seeing someone else. The guy from New York who I'm visiting in a month" (just so you know, she was dating some guy in NY when she used to go to college there. Now she goes to college in CA with me. I guess she's visiting him again and they'll probably bone or whatever.)
Okay. So I thought to myself, 'think, think think, what should I do here? I know that whatever I do, I have to remain unreactive.'
So I said in a very nonchalant and uncaring tone, "Okay, that's fine."
I weighed in my options.
Option #1: I could keep talking to her for a little while and go in for the kiss again, or....
Option #2: I could walk out on her in hopes that she will try and get my attention again.
I did the latter.
I said, "Okay well I'm tired I'm going to sleep" and walked out.
She didn't follow me. I obviously hadn't built enough attraction.
I should have went with option #1 and stayed with her, talked a little longer, and tried again.
I feel like I played my cards pretty well. But obviously I could have done a lot better, since I didn't end up getting the girl.
Any advice for what I should do with this Indian girl? I'm thinking of just forgetting about her. Maybe give it one more try....
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Post by jlw on Apr 11, 2011 21:32:54 GMT -5
Indian girl keeps talking to me and texting me despite her recent kiss rejection. I'm basically politely answering her questions, but otherwise ignoring her. She may still be into me, but i'm kind of annoyed that I had her in the perfect situation and she still resisted.
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Post by Two Step on Apr 12, 2011 7:11:14 GMT -5
ehh the reason you didnt get it from indian girl is because you wrnt acting through your own intentions.
There really wasnt any sexual excitement. Like you need to make moves and theres need to be tension, you wrnt really being yourself because you were wanting to do more but waiting on her to lead
this completely kills the sexual vibe for a girl
They want to be swept off their feet and taken away in the moment, not politley talked to and then given the choice to fool around.
Your were trying to be sexual while playing it safe. Thats like trying to go on a killing spree in call of duty while hiding in a corner. You cant have both
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Post by jlw on Apr 12, 2011 9:12:05 GMT -5
ehh the reason you didnt get it from indian girl is because you wrnt acting through your own intentions. There really wasnt any sexual excitement. Like you need to make moves and theres need to be tension, you wrnt really being yourself because you were wanting to do more but waiting on her to lead this completely kills the sexual vibe for a girl They want to be swept off their feet and taken away in the moment, not politley talked to and then given the choice to fool around. Your were trying to be sexual while playing it safe. Thats like trying to go on a killing spree in call of duty while hiding in a corner. You cant have both =P You are right. There was no sexual excitement. But I still don't understand how I would create it if she was not reacting to anything I did. I'm massaging her back and talking in a slightly slower sexual tone straddling her body while laying on top of her, and nothing. I mean if I can't get her wet under those circumstances then what the hell else am I supposed to do?
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