Post by AIB on Feb 17, 2011 18:20:31 GMT -5
I’m new to this pick up thing and I am trying to become a club stud. I am going to use this thread to share my progress and hopefully get some advice from you.
Right, a quick intro. I am mid-twenties and never went to university/college. Although I was in a cool social group at school ever since starting high-school I have been generally anti-social.
I’ve done very little socialising with girls. I have basically fucked myself up by choosing male oriented subjects to study through school, male dominated hobbies and a male dominated job. For a couple of years I was unemployed and rarely left the house.
I have never had a proper girlfriend and still hold my v-card. Pretty much my whole life I have presented myself to the outside world as asexual, even my own Mum thought I was gay. I have even acted asexual and uninterested when girls have offered themselves to me.
My asexual nature I recently worked out is due to my upbringing. There are several instances throughout my childhood where I have been punished for expressing any kind of sexuality. This has caused me to suppress myself. I love my parents, but they are to blame.
I discovered the PU community a few months ago and decided that I needed to get this shit handled. I am tired of suppressing my own sexual desire; I am tired of the awkward feeling when conversations with friends turn to sex but most of all I am tired of my right hand.
I AM A MAN AND I WANT TO POKE GIRLS.
----------
So, up to now I have worked on eye-contact and body language and I feel like I have these handled pretty well. My presence alone is enough to get reactions from both girls and guys in clubs. Not all these reactions have been positive though. In fact I feel like most are negative but this could be in my head..?
I still suffer from AA and don’t open nearly as much as I should. However I feel that opening situationally or with a bit of physical priming is a lot more comfortable than opening cold so I will stick with this strategy for a while.
Every other night I go out there is one ALPHA-TARD that tries to start shit. So far I have managed to avoid hardcore fisty-cuffs but I feel that I have had to supplicate to achieve this. I need to work on my AMOG’ing technique so that I can diffuse these situations while keeping my value.
Some reactions I have had from girls have puzzled me. I have had one girl give me a wanker gesture while I strutted my way to the bar. I have also had a girl turn to me on the dance-floor and give me the “loser” “L” sign on her forehead. Both were done to me with a smile/smirk but I don’t really know how I should be dealing with this. Should I assume it’s a shit test, pass it and escalate or just straight ignore?
There will be more questions to follow I am sure.
Right, a quick intro. I am mid-twenties and never went to university/college. Although I was in a cool social group at school ever since starting high-school I have been generally anti-social.
I’ve done very little socialising with girls. I have basically fucked myself up by choosing male oriented subjects to study through school, male dominated hobbies and a male dominated job. For a couple of years I was unemployed and rarely left the house.
I have never had a proper girlfriend and still hold my v-card. Pretty much my whole life I have presented myself to the outside world as asexual, even my own Mum thought I was gay. I have even acted asexual and uninterested when girls have offered themselves to me.
My asexual nature I recently worked out is due to my upbringing. There are several instances throughout my childhood where I have been punished for expressing any kind of sexuality. This has caused me to suppress myself. I love my parents, but they are to blame.
I discovered the PU community a few months ago and decided that I needed to get this shit handled. I am tired of suppressing my own sexual desire; I am tired of the awkward feeling when conversations with friends turn to sex but most of all I am tired of my right hand.
I AM A MAN AND I WANT TO POKE GIRLS.
----------
So, up to now I have worked on eye-contact and body language and I feel like I have these handled pretty well. My presence alone is enough to get reactions from both girls and guys in clubs. Not all these reactions have been positive though. In fact I feel like most are negative but this could be in my head..?
I still suffer from AA and don’t open nearly as much as I should. However I feel that opening situationally or with a bit of physical priming is a lot more comfortable than opening cold so I will stick with this strategy for a while.
Every other night I go out there is one ALPHA-TARD that tries to start shit. So far I have managed to avoid hardcore fisty-cuffs but I feel that I have had to supplicate to achieve this. I need to work on my AMOG’ing technique so that I can diffuse these situations while keeping my value.
Some reactions I have had from girls have puzzled me. I have had one girl give me a wanker gesture while I strutted my way to the bar. I have also had a girl turn to me on the dance-floor and give me the “loser” “L” sign on her forehead. Both were done to me with a smile/smirk but I don’t really know how I should be dealing with this. Should I assume it’s a shit test, pass it and escalate or just straight ignore?
There will be more questions to follow I am sure.