Post by haywiz on Feb 15, 2011 17:46:00 GMT -5
So I've decided to post my progress on this site. Ive been a part of another pua site that also encourages natural game. however the forums there have been pretty dead lately. So ill start my thread on a post I made on that site during the beginning of this semester:
Okay, so I dont know if anyone even checks this site anymore. Either way, Im going to post my journey here right now. Ive been in this game for about 3 years now but havent really practiced like I should have. This past weekend it dawned on me that I am ready to take this life change seriously. I will try to update this journal at least 3 times a week to let you all know of my progress.
What I am about to write in this post is how my previous weekend turned out and what motivated me to take control of this part of my life now
This past weekend:
January 15-16:
On saturday My friend told me he was going to Western Michigan University to party with some of his old high school friends. At first I questioned if I really wanted to go because I thought it might be awkward hanging with a group of new people whom I had never met before. Either way I decided to go because I thought something interesting might happen while visiting. The group consisted of one girl that was rather cute maybe a 7.5-8. (whom my friend who invited me had hooked up with before. Another reason I thought the trip might be awkward) two other boys, my friend and me. Later that night the girl invited two of her friends over ( both females) and we did some pre-gaming. One of the girls kept staring at me occassionally which I interpreted as attraction. yet whenever I tried to talk to her, she would let the conversation fall. She wasnt disrespectful or anything just seemed like she was doing the polite thing of conversing, but not really interested in anything further than that. So I dismissed it saying to myself that there will be plenty of other women at the party.
That night we partied at the "TKE" frat house. The party was definitely popping! The girl to boy ratio was pretty good as well. I knew that if anything was going to happen, it was going to happen at this party! So for maybe the first two hours I danced with a couple of girls but nothing major. Then I danced with this one girl. This was one of the few girls that i actually said anything to while dancing. From what I can remember this is how the interaction went down.
Me: "Hey, how are you doing tonight"
Her: "Good. how about you"
Me: "pretty good, whats your name?"
Her: ( I cant remember her name )
Me: "My name is chris"..."do you go here"?
Her: yeh, you?
Me: Naw, I go to Eastern Michigan University
Me: So im guessing your a freshman?
Her: yah
Me: Me too, even though you cant tell because I have a mustache
Her: ( she laughs)
Then we continued to dance for a bit. After about a minute of dancing, I started to kiss on her neck a little. She actually enjoyed it. So then I figured if she enjoyed that, she might be ready to kiss. So I went in for it and WAHLAH! She thrusted her tongue in my mouth. I got tired of standing so I pulled her over to the wall and we continued to makeout. Eventually she pulled back and said that she had to get back to her friends. I wasnt mad, that moment made my night .
Sunday, January 16, 2011
The next night, we went to another party at a different frat house. This one was more crowded than the last and the house was bigger too! However, the girls seemed harder to dance with. I got turned down a lot this night. I ddnt really care too much, although, that could have partly been due to the alcohol that was in my system. However I continued to push on. at one point, I saw the girl who we all came up there with and talked to her for a while. I told her that this party was a little harder to dance with girls than the last. She said but there are so many females. I said "ehh". After a little more chatting and her introducing me to some of her other male friends (as if I really wanted to meet them . They seemed cool though ) I got back on the dance floor and low and behold I saw pretty girl, bout an 8. I began dancing with her and asked her the usual: name, do you go here and so on. I guess I mustve really been feelin her cus I remember her name was jenna .anyway, I figured i would try to turn her around so we could dance face to face. The first time I tried she did about 3 spins and we ended up in the same position. So I figured I'd try again and when she started to spin, I stopped her this time so we were face to face. She then said "oohhhh" ( I thought that was kinda funny ). So we were dancing face to face and our faces were getting closer and closer but she was looking down instead of in my eyes. So I tried what I read In another guys post where he brushed his lips against her cheek. I got no response. I couldnt think of anything else to do in order to get a kiss close so i just danced with her until the song ended. Once the song ended she grabs my head with both of her hands and says.
Her: "It was nice meeting you. Im gonna go dance with my friends now"
im not sure if it was just my perception of the whole thing but she did it in a sexy way as if she was saying "I think your cool and you kinda turned me on, but I dont knw you well enough".
just thinking about the way she did that makes me smile. Even though I ddnt get what I wanted, I parted with her partially satisfied. This night ended early because we couldnt find one of the people we came to the party with. After searching for at least an hour, we found out he was in the car with a girl. We werent sure if they had actually done anything because they were both sleeping! . but anyway, we had to walk all the way back to the dorm which was at least a 5 mile walk. The girl in my group was really mad that we all spent an hour looking for him. However, this moment for me made me realize that I need to get my game together.
One quote that I find really compelling is " What would you do if you weren't afraid". I got this quote from a book called "Who Moved My cheese" by Dr. Spencer Johnson (Good book by the way). This quote pushes me to approach.
questions, comments, criticism. All are welcome. I just really want to get this part of my life sorted out. No more playing around.
So that was what made me take it seriously among some other things. Im just gonna leave this post up for now put up some other ones later of my current approaches. And for the most part I will be doing day game since my college doesnt have a very rich party life. (sad I know)
Okay, so I dont know if anyone even checks this site anymore. Either way, Im going to post my journey here right now. Ive been in this game for about 3 years now but havent really practiced like I should have. This past weekend it dawned on me that I am ready to take this life change seriously. I will try to update this journal at least 3 times a week to let you all know of my progress.
What I am about to write in this post is how my previous weekend turned out and what motivated me to take control of this part of my life now
This past weekend:
January 15-16:
On saturday My friend told me he was going to Western Michigan University to party with some of his old high school friends. At first I questioned if I really wanted to go because I thought it might be awkward hanging with a group of new people whom I had never met before. Either way I decided to go because I thought something interesting might happen while visiting. The group consisted of one girl that was rather cute maybe a 7.5-8. (whom my friend who invited me had hooked up with before. Another reason I thought the trip might be awkward) two other boys, my friend and me. Later that night the girl invited two of her friends over ( both females) and we did some pre-gaming. One of the girls kept staring at me occassionally which I interpreted as attraction. yet whenever I tried to talk to her, she would let the conversation fall. She wasnt disrespectful or anything just seemed like she was doing the polite thing of conversing, but not really interested in anything further than that. So I dismissed it saying to myself that there will be plenty of other women at the party.
That night we partied at the "TKE" frat house. The party was definitely popping! The girl to boy ratio was pretty good as well. I knew that if anything was going to happen, it was going to happen at this party! So for maybe the first two hours I danced with a couple of girls but nothing major. Then I danced with this one girl. This was one of the few girls that i actually said anything to while dancing. From what I can remember this is how the interaction went down.
Me: "Hey, how are you doing tonight"
Her: "Good. how about you"
Me: "pretty good, whats your name?"
Her: ( I cant remember her name )
Me: "My name is chris"..."do you go here"?
Her: yeh, you?
Me: Naw, I go to Eastern Michigan University
Me: So im guessing your a freshman?
Her: yah
Me: Me too, even though you cant tell because I have a mustache
Her: ( she laughs)
Then we continued to dance for a bit. After about a minute of dancing, I started to kiss on her neck a little. She actually enjoyed it. So then I figured if she enjoyed that, she might be ready to kiss. So I went in for it and WAHLAH! She thrusted her tongue in my mouth. I got tired of standing so I pulled her over to the wall and we continued to makeout. Eventually she pulled back and said that she had to get back to her friends. I wasnt mad, that moment made my night .
Sunday, January 16, 2011
The next night, we went to another party at a different frat house. This one was more crowded than the last and the house was bigger too! However, the girls seemed harder to dance with. I got turned down a lot this night. I ddnt really care too much, although, that could have partly been due to the alcohol that was in my system. However I continued to push on. at one point, I saw the girl who we all came up there with and talked to her for a while. I told her that this party was a little harder to dance with girls than the last. She said but there are so many females. I said "ehh". After a little more chatting and her introducing me to some of her other male friends (as if I really wanted to meet them . They seemed cool though ) I got back on the dance floor and low and behold I saw pretty girl, bout an 8. I began dancing with her and asked her the usual: name, do you go here and so on. I guess I mustve really been feelin her cus I remember her name was jenna .anyway, I figured i would try to turn her around so we could dance face to face. The first time I tried she did about 3 spins and we ended up in the same position. So I figured I'd try again and when she started to spin, I stopped her this time so we were face to face. She then said "oohhhh" ( I thought that was kinda funny ). So we were dancing face to face and our faces were getting closer and closer but she was looking down instead of in my eyes. So I tried what I read In another guys post where he brushed his lips against her cheek. I got no response. I couldnt think of anything else to do in order to get a kiss close so i just danced with her until the song ended. Once the song ended she grabs my head with both of her hands and says.
Her: "It was nice meeting you. Im gonna go dance with my friends now"
im not sure if it was just my perception of the whole thing but she did it in a sexy way as if she was saying "I think your cool and you kinda turned me on, but I dont knw you well enough".
just thinking about the way she did that makes me smile. Even though I ddnt get what I wanted, I parted with her partially satisfied. This night ended early because we couldnt find one of the people we came to the party with. After searching for at least an hour, we found out he was in the car with a girl. We werent sure if they had actually done anything because they were both sleeping! . but anyway, we had to walk all the way back to the dorm which was at least a 5 mile walk. The girl in my group was really mad that we all spent an hour looking for him. However, this moment for me made me realize that I need to get my game together.
One quote that I find really compelling is " What would you do if you weren't afraid". I got this quote from a book called "Who Moved My cheese" by Dr. Spencer Johnson (Good book by the way). This quote pushes me to approach.
questions, comments, criticism. All are welcome. I just really want to get this part of my life sorted out. No more playing around.
So that was what made me take it seriously among some other things. Im just gonna leave this post up for now put up some other ones later of my current approaches. And for the most part I will be doing day game since my college doesnt have a very rich party life. (sad I know)