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Post by gerryatrix on Feb 14, 2011 7:33:07 GMT -5
Hi guys I have appproached this game thing a bit differently , I have worked on my inner game , confidence and body language without doing much approaches . Now I have good presence girls basically throw themselves at me I walk into the club like I fucking own the place having fun talking to everyone and good eye contact very confident , I bumped into a girl the other night in the club and got a makeout without saying a word just made solid eye contact and that was it great stuff . The problem is Im very cocky / funny naturally and a ball buster alot of the time girls will approach me and I fuckit up by being too cocky and teasing them too much , girls will come up to me telling me there friend thinks Im hot blah blah blah and I fuck it up by being too sarcastic and cocky there usually the timid and shy type and Im a bit too full on , so when the girl already likes me how do I just be chill with her and stay away from the lame ass whats your name where your from boring ass conversation and not piss her off ??
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Post by bo on Feb 14, 2011 11:20:47 GMT -5
The problem is Im very cocky / funny naturally and a ball buster alot of the time girls will approach me and I fuckit up by being too cocky and teasing them too much , girls will come up to me telling me there friend thinks Im hot blah blah blah and I fuck it up by being too sarcastic and cocky there usually the timid and shy type and Im a bit too full on , so when the girl already likes me how do I just be chill with her and stay away from the lame ass whats your name where your from boring ass conversation and not piss her off ?? that has got to be the longest sentence i have ever seen
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Post by Two Step on Feb 14, 2011 12:01:00 GMT -5
Look say brad pitt walks up to a girl
and goes cocky funny, its cool for like a minute...but then because his value seems so much higher than the girls (very easy to get off the bat) it just comes off like hes being a prick
this is especially true when the guy also does nothing to make a it sexual, just remains cocky funny
If its already on there isnt a need to stick in that mode, you have her attention and shes into you, its time to flirt and connect with eachother. Your overgaming.
What i do is simply put us in a couple conversation, ill tell her she has nice facial feature and then tell her to compliment me, or ill tell her its time to decide what we are gonna do on our first date
Also dude, if you go cocky funny you better be ready to step up and back it up with physicality and making moves. Most guys just sit there and stay cocky funny and its very easy to see through
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Post by gerryatrix on Feb 14, 2011 12:43:36 GMT -5
Cheers two step , yah Im overgaming he shit out of it works well on high value hard to get girls but I need to chill for the normal nice chicks.
I avoid the normal questions like the plague so future date projection a small sincere compliment and ask her whats shes passionte about and what shes got going for her other than her looks ya?
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Post by Two Step on Feb 14, 2011 15:47:10 GMT -5
look one very important thing to remember about a convo is if it has some excitement to it, aka sexually charged. The best way to do this is by being physical. Picture these 2 convos in your head
You and a girl standing about 5 feet apart talking about how you hang out with brad pitt or having some very high value conversation...Sex tension could be very questionable
You with a girl in your arms and your face very close to hers, but your talking about where she works....sexual tension is sky high
Also the problem you are having was one of HPRJs biggest sticking points till we watched a infield of him and pointed it out. Im guessing your sets hook at the beginning and then about 2 min in they start hating , right?
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Post by gerryatrix on Feb 15, 2011 8:00:38 GMT -5
Yah Im too cocky and trying too say clever shit to stand out when I should be chilled out and showing interest by being physical.
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Post by Two Step on Feb 15, 2011 9:54:36 GMT -5
well if you were cocky (aka really confident with a edge) you'd be getting physical
If your not do you see how its a huge contradiction
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