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Post by kingkonggg on Feb 10, 2011 0:41:30 GMT -5
Whats up.
Dropped by the live chat a couple times. I like it! Good discussions and good guys etc.
I am going to try to keep this field report as alive as possible, I am definitely not the best at keeping a journal-ish thing, so here goes.
Some quick words. I am 23 years old, don't really have AA because I can approach and really don't get bummed out or anything. A lot of the times tho it is more me choosing not to, than being scared to do it. Gotta fix this.
The plan is to go out 3 days a week. Thur / Fri / Sat. Will be either clubs or frat parties, whatever goes and seems the most interesting that day.
Goals:
** Always keep strong eye contact
** Have some sort of escalation somewhere quick in the interaction
** Better at listening
** Text the numbers I get either out or at parties I feel went well. Never do this because I am a retard.
** Have fun I usually start of pretty good in an interaction, but after that it stales. I feel like I often don't seem like I am in the moment, but I am drifting away thinking about other things and people notice this.
Another thing I am trying to do is focus on being the best at the basics like a solid approach, solid body language, eye contact, good voice and be in the moment.
I'm trying to not over emphasize this "pickup" stuff and instead be myself and express myself better because I think that is what I am doing "wrong".
Thur: Clubs Fri: Frat party Sat: Rave or Clubs
Will do my best to update and write thorough field reports so that I can get better and better.
All feedback is appreciated. Anything on my mindset, what my goals are etc etc. Everything
Until next time
KK
Some infield for those who wanne see:
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Post by MassiveRay on Feb 10, 2011 20:58:14 GMT -5
A lot of guys who have this fizzling out type stuff usually don't have an aim. You should change with your interaction and if a same day pull for example is on the cards then make it happen. Always be aware of what is on the table and go get it.
Also don't be so down on "pick up" the stuff that pick up can teach can be used in so many ways, even if it just makes you more socially intelligent.
Other than that welcome, I look forward to reading your reports.
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