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Post by ocholoko on Feb 5, 2011 2:08:30 GMT -5
I was acting pretty chodely tonight.
My bottle of Wild Turkey was locked in my friend's room so I didn't pregame before hitting the bars. I'm 18 and the bartenders weren't having it even though I washed off my Xs, but I expected that. My filter was all the way on, and I felt low value being sober at a bar with a bunch of older girls. TONS of AA. Also, my "wing" was just a kid from my floor who is pretty awkward and just kind of dragged me down all night.
Despite this, I opened a couple sets, which really didn't go anywhere because I was going "low risk" like bumming smokes and shit. I left the bar with my because I couldn't get my head in the game and on the way back to my dorm I ran into one belligerent hambeast of a woman and her friend who was pretty cute. It turned out that they were from the floor above me and we talked for a while on our way back. As I left the elevator I heard them both say I was "nice" and I felt pretty conflicted about that.
Lessons learned:
1. I rely too much on alcohol to deal with AA 2. Hit the bars with a decent wing, or someone who at least won't hover all night 3. Grow a pair and use "high risk" approaches 4. Until I get over AA, keep my liquor in my own goddamn room
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Post by bo on Feb 5, 2011 8:54:10 GMT -5
AA?
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Post by MassiveRay on Feb 5, 2011 11:25:42 GMT -5
What's up man?
I don't see a huge problem here to be honest. If you make some small mind set shift you will be over these problems.
Make a conscious decision to not drink is probably the first, just until you learn to approcah without it, then you can start drinking again.
The second, is one that I went through personally a few years back, I used to HATE approaching, AA was baaaaaaad, then I decided to use the fear I had. Everytime I felt that fear in my stomach I would go and approach the first girl I saw.
Within literally a few weeks, I started to enjoy the approaches, the fear was turning into excitement. From then on I had no AA, I had an excitement to approach and people could sense it, my sets were running a lot smoother because I wasn't shitting my pants on the inside.
It's just a choice, decide to do it and then DO IT!
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Post by ocholoko on Feb 24, 2011 3:23:32 GMT -5
Haven't done nearly enough since the last post, gotta step it up.
Tonight I laid some groundwork for vacation, some text game on facebook. Brought a sexual vibe, doesn't feel like it's going anywhere though. Also had a skype sesh with another girl, we've hooked up before, but I was too chode to pursue her so she was trying to put a friend/chode frame on me. Blasted through that right quick. Busted her for some simple shit, by the end she was telling me how she wanted to go skinny dipping at the river with me (how we hooked up last time) and how she wanted to come over and use my hot tub. Definitely gonna get it in over break.
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Post by ocholoko on Feb 26, 2011 2:16:41 GMT -5
Tonight wasn't so hot either. Went looking for parties, found nada. Then we went to the campus diner and I saw some girl I haven't seen since the first quarter. I really wanted to get her number again (broke my old phone), but she was busy with work and shit. Fuckin' lame as shit. Tomorrow will be better no excuses.
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Post by acmra1 on Feb 27, 2011 15:32:51 GMT -5
damn reading this reminds me that I gotta start workin on the girls back home that I'm down to hook up with.
N about the campus diner thing; idn if this' ur style or not but one thing I would do would have like yelled ayy whatever her name is told her to come over... n been like jst "seein u here I've realized I haven't had enough name in my life this semester. Gimme ur number. Where gonna hang out soon." If you do tht with like the right tonality and like vocal shit n be chill with the little social pressure that ull get it will work out good.
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Post by ocholoko on Mar 9, 2011 0:35:18 GMT -5
Not too much to report, basically focused still on laying vacation groundwork. Lots of text game, sexual vibe etc.
Watching the Blueprint Decoded right now, I feel already like applying this is going to have a serious positive impact on my whole life in general. I realized while watching it that most of the girls I go after at home are EXTREMELY needy and I really want to pursue girls who have more healthy self images. But I'm feeling really positive and excited to grow.
Also got a pimp haircut today.
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Post by ocholoko on Mar 9, 2011 21:35:55 GMT -5
Macked some girl from my philosophy class today. It really wasn't noteworthy except for the real level of self-amusement I felt, and how strong my reality was. I felt so present and in state. I can't even wait to apply this more.
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Post by tyt on Mar 10, 2011 0:11:18 GMT -5
Way to go bro. Do you usually mack chicks alone or have wings with you?
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Post by ocholoko on Mar 10, 2011 11:55:21 GMT -5
Honestly I've never had a wing that knew what they were doing, so I put in all my real work solo. It'd be cool to find somebody to wing with though for sure.
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Post by Two Step on Mar 12, 2011 21:55:10 GMT -5
having a awesome wing is so sweet. Its great being able to walk up to a group of chicks being the on the same page. Alot of time when you have a friend with you youll get such things as
The wing who doesnt talk The wing who is to drunk The wing that talks way to loud and says really stupid stuff
=P
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Post by ocholoko on Mar 27, 2011 0:03:36 GMT -5
Alright fuck vacation this shit SUCKED. Had one girl go all lovefest crazy on me without giving up the poon. Fuck that shit.
Couldn't close with a different girl because there was a couple on the other bed in the room at the time and it would get "too loud." Not that I give a fuck, I would've been down for a depraved orgy/swinger sesh. Then I was supposed to come over the next night and watch a pirated version of Limitless and make sweet, sweet fuck to her. I wouldn't have been quite as salty when she flaked if I didn't want to see that movie so fucking bad.
I'm tired as fuck from trying to spend time with all of my family and friends for 11 days straight and now I have to return to the dorm without the glorious burning feeling of victory when I piss.
Lessons learned: 1) FUCK home. It's overrated. 2) The best plans of pimpin' never survive the illogical, hormonal minds of the lesser sex. In short, it doesn't count for shit if she only says she's gonna fuck you.
Whatever. Women of Columbus, gird your loins.
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Post by MassiveRay on Mar 27, 2011 7:50:23 GMT -5
Flakes are bullshit.
You can turn a flake around most of the time by just offering illogical options to her over and over.
Like this:
Her - I have homework to do Me - I'll be your homework Her - And I need to be up early Me - Me too, you can wake me up Her - My cat is also sick Me - Awww I will help you look after him Her - oh alright then, I'll go shave my vag, text me when you get here. Me - mmmkay pumpkin
PERSISTENCE MOTHERFUCKER!!
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Post by ocholoko on Mar 27, 2011 17:30:05 GMT -5
I called her, no answer. Texted, no answer. Next night, same deal. Got a text today saying she had my jacket when I was already on the plane. I just don't understand how she went from soaking wet to freeze out in 16 hours.
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Post by MassiveRay on Mar 28, 2011 14:18:12 GMT -5
Sounds like you went wrong somewhere in the interaction. Old school comfort stage problems by the sound of it, she was hot for you and then it fizzled in the time it took for you to call her the next day. Some girls just get so aroused that they will have sex with you the first night and then they feel ashamed of how they acted and don't want you to assume that she is a slut. Don't worry about it and next time just slip it in, fuck if the friends can hear.
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