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Dancing
Feb 1, 2011 23:25:15 GMT -5
Post by sergei on Feb 1, 2011 23:25:15 GMT -5
OK here's the scenario: dance party. Nobody is standing around talking. The venue is packed to the door. Girls look sexy as fuck but they're dancing in groups with their friends.
Here are some scenarios:
1. A girl is standing around dancing by herself and looking lonely.
2. A really hot girl in a group of maybe 3 or 4 ok girls.
3. A really hot girl in a group with maybe 3 girls and a guy.
4. Two hot girls dancing together
Oh and how do you dance at all? How do you dance with a girl? I don't KNOW these things and I feel RETARDED whenever I go there. I'd like to just grab a girl and sa "let's dance" but then I wouldn't know what to do. Like how do you "grind" I don't even know what that is. I see couples dancing together all over the place and I'm just like.... what
For instance, there's a formal coming up. I could take some girls to it with my friend, but I wouldn't know what the fuck to do once I got there.
Also the other night there was a big dance party in this warehouse-ish thing on campus. I got there and everybody was dancing, but no girls just standing around. They were all dancing and I didn't know how to handle the situation.
Yes I'm a complete idiot newbie fuck. But I'm sure I'm not the only one.
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jigsawjimmy
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Dancing
Feb 2, 2011 14:24:44 GMT -5
Post by jigsawjimmy on Feb 2, 2011 14:24:44 GMT -5
I used to have the same kind of problems, but I eventually worked my way through them.
First, I needed some confidence in some tried and true dance moves. I got these from Youtube. There's plenty of "Basics of Club Dancing" videos out there. I really suggest pickupdance. The guy keeps things simple, usable, and has products you can buy if you want to learn more.
So check out his youtube videos, and if you want more check out some of his products on the pickupdance website
Next, mental state. One of the biggest and most important aspects of having success on the dance floor is being is a really strong and positive mental state. It's all inner game stuff again, but the stuff really is probably one of the most important aspects of ever being successful in a pickup. To get more on mental state, I really suggest checking out "The Blueprint Decoded" by RSD. Its damn long, but it really goes deep into inner game and harnessing it for yourself.
From here, you have the basics for having success on the Dance Floor. Also remember to make it your own, throw in your own moves, don't be afraid to throw in the corny moves and above all else have the time of your life out there.
As far as your more specific questions on one-sets, two-sets.... They all work relatively the same. If I see a girl I deem worthy of joining my roaming party, I'll usually throw in a really overdone point in her direction with the music. Sometimes I'll just walk over and drop a move (I've gotten a hell of a lot better through practice, I used to be the kind of person who would just say "I can't dance"). If you throw down something good, she's usually impressed enough to stick around. Even better, if you throw something funny enough she'll stick around.
Another thing, you want to keep in touch with the really mainstream "Top 40" songs you're going to hear in the clubs. I've got a pretty obscure taste in music, but force myself to listen to the stuff you can't get away from in clubs so I can stay ahead of the music while I'm dancing. Nothing feels more awkward than the pace of the music dropping out from under you just as your pulling a girl in. You're dancing way to fast (or slow) and just feel awkward.
If you got anymore questions, I'm happy to help you out with them. Dancefloor game used to be a real weak point of mine and now I'm having a blast running it.
Cheers
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gohan
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Dancing
Feb 2, 2011 15:31:04 GMT -5
Post by gohan on Feb 2, 2011 15:31:04 GMT -5
This is the best tutorial in my opinion
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Dancing
Feb 2, 2011 17:04:47 GMT -5
Post by Two Step on Feb 2, 2011 17:04:47 GMT -5
Do you see in any of my or massive rays field reports where we show off sweet dancing skills?
no
because dancing well is for faggots
Go out there and shake your ass this isnt americas next top dance crew
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