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Post by fmarti09 on Jan 30, 2011 13:24:43 GMT -5
hey everyone! my name is frank and im new to this site. it seems pretty legit here and i look foward to speaking with other members. so i started my spring semester in college 2 weeks ago and im getting used to all my new classes and checking out all the hotties on campus. there is one girl in particular that i would like to approach but im a little stuck coming up with an appropriate way to start with her. here is some info about the situation: she is roughly my age (19-20) she is in my music appreciation class, which is a huge lecture class we have not really talked to each other but we have exchanged smiles back and forth. she seems like a nice girl and i would like to get a date with her, maybe become "study" partners hopefully someone can help me out! thanks ahead of time and feel free to ask if more info is needed.
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Post by Two Step on Jan 30, 2011 13:27:49 GMT -5
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Post by fmarti09 on Jan 30, 2011 13:33:26 GMT -5
i tried but for some reason i couldn't sign in. i think the internet connection im using right now has restrictions on those kinds of site :/
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Post by Two Step on Jan 30, 2011 14:41:06 GMT -5
hmm yeah, you can enter any login name you want if thats the prob
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jigsawjimmy
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Post by jigsawjimmy on Jan 31, 2011 17:13:05 GMT -5
Ok, not sure if 2step hit this one already, but I'll give my 2 cents Basically, for the classroom pickup, there are 2 key elements. First is proximity, if she's 300 seats away from you, good luck... your not gonna talk to her today... The second in pickup style. So on with Proximity. Sitting 2 seats over in the same row allows you to casually open indirectly. Any general observational opener should work here, just get conversation rolling. Most girls will be open to talk, so its easy to go from here. I also like to go to class alone. This way, when I sit down near a HB I can steer conversation to "Ok, your my new best friend/study buddy (with benefits)/ whatever frame I want" Then I'll move to sit beside her. Throughout the class I'll try to keep conversation going, while still attempting to pay attention to the lecture... ... Usual conversation topics are partying, drinking, or really anything that will keep me entertained, I get bored really easily. I'll either set up an instant date right after class (keep it short though), or number close. The number close works best if you do it slightly ahead of the end of class, if you number close when the class ends it looks like your nervous. If you do it too early you can lose conversation. I usually aim for the number close with 5 minutes or less left in class. The second technique is when your leaving the room. This one has benefits and disadvantages, but has worked for me in the past. You still need to sit somewhat near your girl, but not necessarily directly beside her. Your aim is to intercept her on her way out of class and open her. Once again, I lean towards indirect game here, usually an opinion opener or, my favorites, observational openers. You can, however, pull direct game here. I haven't pulled it out enough to say I'm comfortable using a direct opener after class, but I have done it with some success. From here you can go for a quick number close if time constraints get the better of the situation, or you can go on the instant date. In case you haven't noticed, I love the instant date. I get to bounce locations, isolate and actually gauge whether or not this woman is worth my efforts. Hope you have some luck in class man cheers
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Post by fmarti09 on Feb 3, 2011 0:02:33 GMT -5
thanks alot man im gonna put this to work tomorrow!
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