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Post by redglass1 on Mar 16, 2011 1:41:11 GMT -5
I'm going to post my FRs here. I'm copying and pasting from RSDnation. Grocery store Walk up to register, held eye contact with the cute cashier on the way up. She's a solid 8 really cute. Maybe I should rate her higher idk. She looked away to talk to a friend of hers (I’m assuming she’s a friend)
I forgot most of the damn interaction.
Me: You’re cute. Her: I get that a lot. (I think this is where she started giggling) Me: Oh really I thought it was rare. It usually is. Her: Most guys get offended if you call them cute. *giggle* Me: I don’t give a crap. I’ve been called cute, handsome, even ugly. Everyone has a different opinion.
I forgot what I said next.
Me: Give me your phone number. This was after I’m done paying for my sodas.
Her: No. Have a nice day. Me: Ok give me your facebook. Her: I don’t have a facebook. *giggle*
Then she says some weirdly obvious thing about facebook. I say something like “well that’s obvious” (I think she might have been nervous) then:
Me: I’ll look you up. Her: *gives me her first and last name to look her up* Me: *makes a joke about her last name*
It’s been so long since I’ve done this that my hands are shaking like hell. She giggles
I look her up. I show her my phone which has people’s facebooks up in the search. She says it’s not hers.
Me: Are you the picture of the duck? Her: *giggle* No. My picture has 2 girls on it. Me: Just give me your phone number.
Her: Ok it’s *phone number*
I stand in place and call her. Her phone rings in her pocket. She pulls her phone out, looks at my number and makes a comment about my area code. It’s not local, it’s Hawaii’s code. I love Hawaii so much I wanted to keep the area code.
Me: Do you know what area code it is? Her: What? Me: Do you know what area code it is? Her: No. Me: (Not wanting to brag that I've lived in Hawaii) "Just wondering"
I leave a message from an idea I got from college flirt:
Me: Hey this is RedGlass1 I’m talking to this creepy girl. She’s really creeping me out.
She laughs for about the millionth time in this short interaction.
Me: Alright I gotta go, I’ll talk to you later. Her: Bye
I leave.
Note: I’m thinking I should have shaken her hand. Maybe talked about more personal stuff? Someone chime in please if you can.
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Post by redglass1 on Mar 16, 2011 1:43:19 GMT -5
Called her, no answer. Damn it ain't gonna be easy is it?! At least I manned up and did it. I used to have to psych myself up like I'm about to skydive or something.
Went to the bookstore today after I got blood drawn to test if my thyroid is ok. My blood pressure is 100/50 even though I haven't worked out in months. I hope that's a good thing.
When I was waiting to see the nurse I saw some dude. He looked familiar. I kept looking over because something about the dude was familiar.... (I'm not gay!) Turns out I've chilled with this dude before and he goes out to a sports bar here on Fridays. So now I have a social safety net in that venue.
Ok back to chicks:
She's a 6 but had a really big nice looking ass. She's black.
She went up to buy something, I say "how are you?"
She says fine.
Me: Are you doing school work?
Her: I'm studying
Me: What are you studying?
Her: Pharmacology.
Me: That's stuff sounds hard.
Her: No it isn't.
I get my drink. Then walk up to her.
Me: Nice to meet you my name is RedGlass1.
Her: Nice meeting you.
I go get a straw for my drink.
I walk back up to her and ask her if she has facebook.
Her: My boyfriend will get mad.
Me: What's your name?
She tells me her first name but then says she has a crazy last name. It's a long different name, from some foreign country.
I look her up but can't find her.
Me: Just give me your number.
Her: No I can't.
Me: I'll text you.
She refuses.
Then she asks for my name, I tell her and she says she'll look me up. Not gonna happen but who cares.
And that was the only decent set in the bookstore. This small town is really small.
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Post by redglass1 on Mar 19, 2011 18:03:18 GMT -5
2 sets today. 2 blowout, nothing really worth mentioning.
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Post by MintBerry Crunch on Mar 19, 2011 18:08:16 GMT -5
Try to spice up your convos, read two step's essentials articles. they're definitly a good read. From what I've read, your not really generating a sexual vibe ya dig
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Post by redglass1 on Mar 20, 2011 6:55:41 GMT -5
Try to spice up your convos, read two step's essentials articles. they're definitly a good read. From what I've read, your not really generating a sexual vibe ya dig Thanks a lot man. It's a big help finally hearing some feedback. I'll definently check out those articles when I wake up, worked all night. I think I might also make it a goal to make all of talk in my sets sexual until I get used to it.
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Post by MassiveRay on Mar 20, 2011 8:41:01 GMT -5
To be honest mate, that conversation you posted just sounds boring, at what point do you challenge her? tease her? add anything enthusiastic? This shit is pure interview mode bullshit.
Fair play for approaching though. Keep it up.
Work on making conversations fun before you concentrate on the sexual stuff.
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Post by redglass1 on Mar 20, 2011 15:21:59 GMT -5
To be honest mate, that conversation you posted just sounds boring, at what point do you challenge her? tease her? add anything enthusiastic? This shit is pure interview mode bullshit. Fair play for approaching though. Keep it up. Work on making conversations fun before you concentrate on the sexual stuff. Got any articles on making conversations fun, challenging, teasing, etc? I teased her about her last name. Probably not enough though. Yeah approaching for me is the easy part.
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Post by thraxe on Mar 20, 2011 15:48:38 GMT -5
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Post by redglass1 on Mar 20, 2011 16:17:19 GMT -5
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Post by redglass1 on Mar 20, 2011 16:17:59 GMT -5
I have a date with a religious chick. Probably next weekend. We'll see.
She's a 20 something year old virgin so I'm not really expecting anything.
I always text her that I'm going to molest her, to tell her parents I'm a devil worshipper, tell he I'm going to get her pregnant, etc.
She's a Jehovah Witness.
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Post by redglass1 on Mar 23, 2011 0:13:40 GMT -5
I opened 2 sets today.
One when I was at the library doing my final. I talked to her for a little bit but when I asked her for her name she ignored me. I asked her again and she ignored me again so I stopped talking to her. It went like:
Me: Do you have allergies? (her eyes were red) Her: No I've been crying. Me: Did your dog die? Her: No that's what it looks like doesn't it.
Later on she was near me so I asked if she felt better. She said no then I asked for her name and she ignored me.
I was feeling fear about talking to the 2nd set I saw. I opened and found out was too young after talking to her. I made a hasty retreat.
Note:
I think I need to use more statements when I talk. And challenge the girl and stuff after I learn what that is. I have a bad memory so it's hard for me to remember what to say to a girl after I open and stuff. I want something simple that I can do.
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Post by redglass1 on Mar 23, 2011 0:18:49 GMT -5
at what point do you challenge her? tease her? add anything enthusiastic? This shit is pure interview mode bullshit. Fair play for approaching though. Keep it up. Can you show me how to do all of that?
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Post by MassiveRay on Mar 23, 2011 12:10:42 GMT -5
This is way too much for one post, try reading the articles on the main site or buy the ebook, it's basically what this whole site is about.
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Post by redglass1 on Apr 2, 2011 11:31:40 GMT -5
I was supposed to get out of work last night at 3am. Had to cover for a guy since he collapsed in his lawn and had to go to the hospital. I end up getting relieved by 2:20 or so.
So I roll in the restaurant connected to the gas station. I order food and wait for it. I notice some black girl go up to the counter and lean over it doggystyle to talk to someone on the other side. I stare like a pervert. Maybe not like a pervert but I stare. While I'm waiting I go and buy a honeybun and it turns out she's working in the front counter of the convience store.
I talk to her, just bullshitting about how I have a co-worker that collapsed and stuff. I introduce myself and shake her hand, she asks for my name. I qualify her, which Jeffy's book really helped me get how to do it. From the look on her face and the way she was acting it seemed pretty obvious that she was into me. I buy my hunny bun and she says bye and I walk off.
In a minute I decide to grab her number. So I walk back, she's busy so I go to the bathroom. When I come back I decide fuck it and stand in line. When I get up to her I say what's up and that she seems cool and cute and "give me your number." She laughs out loud for like 15 seconds and I think I'm going to get rejected, then she starts pulling out reciept paper to put her number on. I pull out my phone and get her number. She asks me to call her phone so she has my number.
I tell her if she doesn't answer my call I will punch her. She laughs. She's busy and I gotta go grab my food so I say bye and leave.
Then after I'm asleep at home for an hour and a half I get a call from her. I barely remember this because I kinda sleep answered the call. She said something about how she called me on accident and I was like "I'll talk to you later."
I read Get Laid or Die trying. It's not an instructional book, but I got a lot of helpful info about qualifying out of it.
Might go out tonight idk because I didn't get much sleep. I hope this girl doesn't call me in the middle of the night anymore.
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