Post by jbj on Mar 6, 2011 9:15:34 GMT -5
Hey guys! I stumbled on this awesome site a little while ago and BOOM! I’m now starting my first journal/FR.
BG: Im probably similar to a lot of guys here (except the writers) in my success with chicks. I can hold a decent convo and score the occasional hook up. However 80% of the time the girl has been the initiator... time to stop being a pussy and go after the chicks i want >!!!! I’ve decided it’s time to stop messing around and make the most of my time at University.
Yep, i said university. I live in Australia, and im 19, which means a lot of the parties are at bars/clubs around my city. But generally, ill be going out usually 2 times a week. So yeah, ill try my best at writing this stuff up, and any advice/feedback would be sweet!! Im ready to see some improvements!!
Last Night 05/03:
The night started off with a few pre drinks + some xbox at a mates place. Out of our little group of 7, (all dudes) really only me and a mate (my wingman) were set on chasing some tail, so the majority of the night we were separated from the rest. The place we went to first is quite popular club for university students in my city, so we were bound to run into people we knew. Got in there around 10 30, and shared a few drinks with some other friends from uni. A couple of the chicks were alright, but i ended up mostly talking to the guys cos i knew them better. This was pretty much just a warm up.
After this my wing and i changed venues to a place across the street, mainly because the ratio was pretty poor. We walked in and went straight to the D-floor. (btw probably 50% of my pulls have started on the d floor). Quite good ratio here, but a lot of older chicks. We were dancing for about 10 seconds when an older chick (maybe 22-25) literally grabbed the collar of my shirt, pulled me over and started grinding. She was probably only just a seven, but i rolled with it. As we were dancing my wing started chatting up a cute 8 on the side of the d-floor and ended up getting her number. But yeah, the chick i was dancing with seemed to go off me and went back to her friends. Im not too sure what i did wrong. Either didn’t escalate enough and she got bored, or she was just attention seeking haha.
Anyway, i got a text shortly after from my mate saying to come back to the first place. This is where we had a few good sets. We walk in and see two girls sitting down on the edge of the d-floor. My wing says he wants the blonde which is cool so i say ill occupy her brunette friend. They were both solid 7.5-8. We approach. I sit down next to the brunette, and my buddy next to the blonde:
Me: Hey you look bored, why aren’t you dancing?
Her: we’re just having a break
Me: haha fair enough, whats your name?
We talked quite a bit about uni and general stuff happening around where we live.
Me: so what do you study at UNI?
Her: im a 3rd year law student at _______
Me: no way me too but at ________ (better uni than what she said)
(yes this was a lie, but at the time i didn’t realise that she was actually quite attractive)
But i think my body language, tonality and stuff was good because she was smiling the whole time and didn’t look bored. But now i realise i should have steered the convo in more of a sexual direction, or at least asked her to dance. After a while their other friend came over and started talking with my wing and his girl. I think it went downhill from there. Anyway the left soon after...really should have asked for her number .
Next Set:
Two other girls sitting on the edge of the d’floor. My wing nods in their direction and i say let’s go. He sits down next to the hotter one (damn!) but the other chick was still kind of cute.
Me: Hey! Whats your name? im Jack
Her: hey i’m __________.
We talked for a little bit, most of which i don’t remember due to alcohol :S haha. But i do remember her making a point of telling me that she was single. Either way my friend ejected and i said goodbye and left, again without at least asking for a number. After that we just chilled and went home.
Things i need to work on:
- Creating more of a sexual vibe. Letting the girl know, “it’s on ”
- Not chickening out when thinking about asking for her number. This will hopefully get easier though if theres more of a sexual vibe.
Cheers for reading guys!!! . Ill hopefully be posting reports from most of my nights out so any feedback would be appreciated. I didn’t realise writing it all up would be so hard :S
ALSO: I need some tips on how what to do with this cute girl in my group for project work at uni. We met last week and we’ll be working quite closely at least 5 or 6 hours a week. But yeah any tips on how to handle this situation???
BG: Im probably similar to a lot of guys here (except the writers) in my success with chicks. I can hold a decent convo and score the occasional hook up. However 80% of the time the girl has been the initiator... time to stop being a pussy and go after the chicks i want >!!!! I’ve decided it’s time to stop messing around and make the most of my time at University.
Yep, i said university. I live in Australia, and im 19, which means a lot of the parties are at bars/clubs around my city. But generally, ill be going out usually 2 times a week. So yeah, ill try my best at writing this stuff up, and any advice/feedback would be sweet!! Im ready to see some improvements!!
Last Night 05/03:
The night started off with a few pre drinks + some xbox at a mates place. Out of our little group of 7, (all dudes) really only me and a mate (my wingman) were set on chasing some tail, so the majority of the night we were separated from the rest. The place we went to first is quite popular club for university students in my city, so we were bound to run into people we knew. Got in there around 10 30, and shared a few drinks with some other friends from uni. A couple of the chicks were alright, but i ended up mostly talking to the guys cos i knew them better. This was pretty much just a warm up.
After this my wing and i changed venues to a place across the street, mainly because the ratio was pretty poor. We walked in and went straight to the D-floor. (btw probably 50% of my pulls have started on the d floor). Quite good ratio here, but a lot of older chicks. We were dancing for about 10 seconds when an older chick (maybe 22-25) literally grabbed the collar of my shirt, pulled me over and started grinding. She was probably only just a seven, but i rolled with it. As we were dancing my wing started chatting up a cute 8 on the side of the d-floor and ended up getting her number. But yeah, the chick i was dancing with seemed to go off me and went back to her friends. Im not too sure what i did wrong. Either didn’t escalate enough and she got bored, or she was just attention seeking haha.
Anyway, i got a text shortly after from my mate saying to come back to the first place. This is where we had a few good sets. We walk in and see two girls sitting down on the edge of the d-floor. My wing says he wants the blonde which is cool so i say ill occupy her brunette friend. They were both solid 7.5-8. We approach. I sit down next to the brunette, and my buddy next to the blonde:
Me: Hey you look bored, why aren’t you dancing?
Her: we’re just having a break
Me: haha fair enough, whats your name?
We talked quite a bit about uni and general stuff happening around where we live.
Me: so what do you study at UNI?
Her: im a 3rd year law student at _______
Me: no way me too but at ________ (better uni than what she said)
(yes this was a lie, but at the time i didn’t realise that she was actually quite attractive)
But i think my body language, tonality and stuff was good because she was smiling the whole time and didn’t look bored. But now i realise i should have steered the convo in more of a sexual direction, or at least asked her to dance. After a while their other friend came over and started talking with my wing and his girl. I think it went downhill from there. Anyway the left soon after...really should have asked for her number .
Next Set:
Two other girls sitting on the edge of the d’floor. My wing nods in their direction and i say let’s go. He sits down next to the hotter one (damn!) but the other chick was still kind of cute.
Me: Hey! Whats your name? im Jack
Her: hey i’m __________.
We talked for a little bit, most of which i don’t remember due to alcohol :S haha. But i do remember her making a point of telling me that she was single. Either way my friend ejected and i said goodbye and left, again without at least asking for a number. After that we just chilled and went home.
Things i need to work on:
- Creating more of a sexual vibe. Letting the girl know, “it’s on ”
- Not chickening out when thinking about asking for her number. This will hopefully get easier though if theres more of a sexual vibe.
Cheers for reading guys!!! . Ill hopefully be posting reports from most of my nights out so any feedback would be appreciated. I didn’t realise writing it all up would be so hard :S
ALSO: I need some tips on how what to do with this cute girl in my group for project work at uni. We met last week and we’ll be working quite closely at least 5 or 6 hours a week. But yeah any tips on how to handle this situation???