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Post by niceguy90 on Jan 24, 2011 20:55:53 GMT -5
i'm a college student who's having trouble getting girls at parties. i have no problem talking to girls, but my problem is taking it to the next level (getting flirty). i have trouble going from a regular conversation to flirting. After the basics are established (name, major, activities involved in, etc.) what am i supposed to say? or should i not even bother with finding out the basics and just flirt right from the start? if so, what kind of flirty things should i say?
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Post by Two Step on Jan 24, 2011 21:18:46 GMT -5
Flirt right off the start
im writing a article on this right now. ill link ya in a bit
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Post by Telecaster on Jan 24, 2011 23:40:26 GMT -5
Try and get her to prove herself to you.
The last time I got laid it was because I got a girl out back of my house and asked her to tell me 3 things about herself. Not like what she did, but her personality. This girl happened to be super hot, but super insecure. Two Step gave me this bit of advice which was the only thing I could think of. I have more value than her. She should be the one trying to prove herself to me.
So basically the entire time I was flirty cutting her down/building her up. Long story short I had sex with her a couple times, it was the best head I've ever had, she fell in love with me, now she hates me.
But long story short, you just have to know that you are better than her. She's got to be the one that is trying to sell herself to you.
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Post by niceguy90 on Jan 26, 2011 21:55:01 GMT -5
what kind of flirty things should i say? two step, whats the article called? i can't find it
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Post by Two Step on Jan 27, 2011 13:28:25 GMT -5
im working on it now =P be up in a bit
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Post by jigsawjimmy on Jan 29, 2011 21:04:07 GMT -5
Dude, I know exactly where you're coming from
I never used to be any good round' the wommenfolk, so I got into the a serious commitment... Committing to getting good with ladies.
So I got into the community stuff, I remember skipping reading half of an E-Book because I was so focused on opening and building attraction. I got that stuff, but still wasn't getting any further.
What did I do? Practice. Practice, and don't be afraid to screw up. I found out I would have to push normal social boundaries to get further with the women I was trying to pick up. You always hear about touching other perople frequently in the community, but do you really follow through with instant kino?
I didn't. So when I started doing it I was uncalibrated. It was awkward (for everyone involved), but eventually I could naturally kino right from the start of the interaction.
Next, flirting. I found bantering is the best way to transition to flirting. If you want to learn about banter, check out the pickup podcast by "Art Of Charm" on I-Tunes. There's a couple hour long podcasts dedicated to analyzing and teaching good banter skills.
My final, and favorite way to get flirty, is to have a completely unconventional conversation.
I think this came from the RSD stuff I'm into at the moment, but at any given time I'm on a mission to keep myself amused.
What's that mean for conversation. Well, I don't care about normal conversation topics. I'll never get names off the start, I'll never ask outright where everyone's from, and I'll never ask about, and help me if I ever do, what high school you went to.
I. Just. Don't. Care
What do I ask? Random questions which entertain me. Recently I was at a party in some random room which featured an absolutely obscure amount of Calvin Klein male model pictures. So I had to ask the hot blond beside me which was hottest.
She answers, I start teasing her all she cares about in a man is his body. How she's sooooooo shallow. Blah, blah, blah... "But I'm not shallow" (her qualifying to me)... MAKEOUT!
Keeping myself amused and entertained keeps me in a great mindset, and naturally leads to flirting since I'm just having fun all the time.
Hope that helps a bit
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Post by Two Step on Jan 29, 2011 22:11:40 GMT -5
jigs has good advice im gonna talk about alot of ways i make things flirty in The Essentials Series ( collegeflirt.net/the-essentials-the-absolute-beginners-guide/ )with -coupling up and making a lover scenario -physicality -teasing her and flipping the sexual tables -role playing -and setting the vibe from the get go <a href="http://collegeflirt.net/the-essentials-the-absolute-beginners-guide/">The
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