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Post by frederick on Apr 6, 2011 22:44:01 GMT -5
"So i found one of the main keys to natural game..(brad has covered this extensively, i have not never truly got it till now)...actually thinking you are better than everyone else to a idiotic level and having the mindset of a extremely hot girl almost(besides loving dick)..I thought I had this mindset solved but ive realized one of my main sticking points was not acutally believing this. Now that I have truly started to view everyone around me as stupid and stopped valueing any strangers opinion what so ever my results are sky rocketing."
Doesn't this make you extremely cynical and depressed?
Judging people as being worse than you and being stupid?
When I've done this in the past it's made me feel like shit.
How do you value people in interactions while thinking they're stupid and worse than you?
This is really confusing me.
-Fred
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Post by thraxe on Apr 7, 2011 11:22:24 GMT -5
I'd also like to see twosteps explanation, but from how I take it, its more like this -
It's not that you should be walking around like people aren't worthy of you haha, more of a mindset that you provide more value to any given situation then anyone else, you are what's important and act with that knowledge/feeling.
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Post by frederick on Apr 7, 2011 12:56:17 GMT -5
I'd also like to see twosteps explanation, but from how I take it, its more like this - It's not that you should be walking around like people aren't worthy of you haha, more of a mindset that you provide more value to any given situation then anyone else, you are what's important and act with that knowledge/feeling. That's what I would think, thraxe, and that's what makes the most sense. But I just don't understand how one would walk through the world with this attitude and not be extremely cynical and bitter towards people. Thinking people are stupid and worse than you is pretty harsh!.
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Post by thraxe on Apr 7, 2011 14:25:44 GMT -5
I'll put it nicely then... I think I'm smarter and better than you. It has the same effect...
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Post by MassiveRay on Apr 10, 2011 16:42:11 GMT -5
Guys, don't read so much into the wording, he is basically saying value yourself highly (to a weird delusional level) and you will automatically make people qualify to you.
Every guy I have ever met who is good at picking up girl has had this sense of delusion, nobody more so than myself.
Thinking you are better than people doesn't mean you have to be a dick about it.
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Post by Two Step on Apr 14, 2011 18:12:17 GMT -5
*keyword strangers
Many people, mainly guys who are bad with girls go in automatically assuming the person is better than them and they are the lower value person
A movie star doesnt have to be a asshole, but if hes in a normal bar hes obviously knows hes better than everyone else and will act accordlingly
One of the bottom line guys, if you want to get freakishly good with girls in cold approach you are going to have to be delusional at some point. The main thing you need to realize though is your reality is the only one you have, so being delusional is completely acceptable
It is not socially normal to approach random girls It is not socially normal to assume every girl is attracted to you It is not socially normal to believe that people arounds opinions are worth absolute shit until the person proves they are special
Pick up is not socially normal, and your not going to get anywhere with a normal mindset. To be a natural with girls you are going to have to think
you are a 11 out of 10 they are all attracted to you their opinions dont matter
This could be seen as extremely narcissistic, however if you dont think this way you will not act congruently to it and girls opinions are going to tear you up.
Like i said in the post you want to have the king attitude Alex rsd points to. You know you are better than every body else, however you care about them as a king would his people.
You can take this the other way and be a jersey shore gueto, however a king and a gueto still get laid a awful lot
I didnt spell check this
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