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Post by chris852 on Mar 12, 2011 20:47:36 GMT -5
Update:
I am stilling having the trouble pulling the fucking trigger. It seems like I get wet feet when I know there is something.
Like stated above I am going to school to flirt and shit even when I have no class.
First one was a Colombian MILF that was stilling on a bench. lol. It went great body language was there, we were touching each other. funny part was that she was married, her husband picked her up ---___--. Before she left, she was like "chow"
Second one, blow up in my face. She just got up and left.
Third one, was cool some touching and stuff I felt ,we were talking but not "talking"
Friday, waiting for the girl that I hit it off with that mention in my other post. Nada
Same Friday, went to a Berger King, drive-thru, the girl and I were eye fucking each other to the point we just looking into each other eyes like for 5mins without talking. Her name was Ashley. I swear I could of popped my head out and kissed her. She gave me free food and everything.
I need to start manning up and start pulling the trigger.
Got to start pulling the trigger, I;m going to regret it.
AS for the POF girl, we talked but she have a son and everything. Not really for me. but I manged to get her friends name. we been chatting back and fourth. see where that goes.
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Post by wurzel on Mar 13, 2011 1:40:43 GMT -5
Hey bro
In regards to pulling the trigger, dont beat urself up so much, just because shes attracted doesnt mean that she wants to fuck you. A LOT of women can find you attractive without wanting to sleep with you, or rather they just wouldnt because her husband is coming etc.. etc..
I think by reading what you wrote, only 50% of the girls there woulda been DTF, the other 50 were just attracted
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Post by psych on Mar 13, 2011 21:49:32 GMT -5
You're on the right track man & don't sweat the small stuff. (cliche I know)
You have the fish caught, you just have to reel it in - think of your phone as your net where you keep your fish. After you have them in there, you can access them ANYTIME it is convenient for you & the more fish you have in your net the less fishing you have to do.
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Post by chris852 on Mar 15, 2011 19:04:32 GMT -5
psych, good tip man about the phone. got to keep it in mind.
UpDate:
Went on 2 dates:
Girl number 1- she was a 8/10, annoying voice as hell tho. Very touchy, holding hands, I slapped her ass, she liked it. took her to see my school and shit ( She doesn't get out very often I concluded + she has no car.) After we got done touring the school, we went back to my car, ( attempt number 1). After 10mins of touching and nothing, we decided to get out and go to a local hotspot ,Bayside. There was someone on stage playing the guitar, I stayed there for 10mins during so she is all on me, holding hands, etc. so after walking around and basically dry humping her, we go back to my car, (attempt number 2) same story. Couldn't seal the deal, she told me that she had a boyfriend back home. She let me grab her tits through her shirt and she opened my boxers and “poked” (*I guess) my dick. I took her home. Throughout the date I attempted to kiss her, nada. A week later, I texted to hangout, nada.
Girl Number 2
5/10, I said why not. Some girl in Class. Took her to the mall to get something. Very touchy and everything. I put my hands inside her back pants. Grabbing her ass, in front of everyone, she was cool with it. Through the whole date, touch everywhere, got back to her house, chilled. I grab her tits and put my hands in-between her ass after her putting my hands off it. She took off her pants to show me her panties. She kissed me, a couple of times, (yuck, The second I got home I cleaned my mouth with alcohol ) but that’s it, couldn’t seal the deal. And left. she has a hygiene problem. She smelled horrible( She always does)I’m going to avoid this one.
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Been talking to the girl whom a girl I met on POF gave me the number off. We had phone sex last night. =) We’ve been talking every night for about a week. WE plan of meeting up this weekend. We been talking for about an hour , every night. Looking forward, is there any harm in we talking for this long?
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When we touch is call KINO? What does Kino means. ( perhaps an article explaining all the terms and concept?) I have to stop forcing to have sex on the day we meet. I’m sure with girl number 1, I could of gotten a lay the next time we gotten out. If I haven’t blown it I have to watch my speech, I have a minor speech impartment ( Cluttering) Need to keep it in check
Thanks.
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Post by MassiveRay on Mar 15, 2011 19:59:20 GMT -5
Kino = kinesthetics, it means movement and touch. You don't need to know all the creepy pua words, we don't really say the around here plus pretty much every single company has a different set of them.
The important stuff is the concepts behind the terms, which are all explained very well in our articles.
I agree that you pushed too hard with girl 1, not that you could't have had sex with her just that you miscalibrated the situation. Try to work out what you did wrong and what you should have done.
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Post by chris852 on Mar 18, 2011 17:18:57 GMT -5
Thanks Ray, Update: Got a numver from a chick from POF. Let see how it goes.
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Post by jlw on Mar 18, 2011 17:37:27 GMT -5
Hey buddy, sounds like you're making progress. Keep updating!
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Post by MintBerry Crunch on Mar 19, 2011 3:06:41 GMT -5
yooo don't fuck the girl with the kid broo
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Post by wurzel on Mar 19, 2011 4:51:13 GMT -5
Good man bro
Like seeing u pushing the shit. As for the 5/10 dont do it bro, dont sell urself short.
I mean would you eat shitty food that will make ur tongue burn? etc.. etc..
Aside from that good job bro, it will come. I went through that when I was first starting out and shit, I always got the no go and it pissed me off to no limit, but then one day im just like fuck it and the "no go" dont even register and I seem to just auto plough and seal the deal.
Much respect man you got determination
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Post by chris852 on Mar 21, 2011 17:57:00 GMT -5
Thanks for your support guys.
\UpDate:
I went on a "date" (I guess)with girl number 1. No go. I deleted her number. Tried to escalate,nada. Funny thing.I was so sick of her bull shit that I started hitting on other girls.\, right in front of her.
First ONe: MILF that was sitting alone in the movie theater, I came up to her and told her she was far too beautiful to be sitting alone, while touching her shoulder. I told her that and went back to my seat.
I saw her again a few minutes later after that movie ended outside. I went and talked to her like nothing, about the movie ,gave her a kiss and left. When I did this, It felt like a rush, like a high. Good shit.
Girl 2, saw her when I was with girl number 1 (the date) and open her with her small 1 year old brother that she had with her. Gave her a kiss and left.
Go to starBucks in the area, buy me a drink and not anything for the Date (Asshole, I know) Sat outside, saw girl 2 again, signal to her to come over. and sit. Talked shit with her, ignoring my date. She started interrupting me when talking to her. So I got up, gave a kiss to girl 2 and left.
POF: we meet up for like 20 mins to help my out for an assignment. (It was the same day as I was out with the date) Going to follow back to her with “Hey, let me pay you back, let me take you out to eat” or some bull like that, this Friday. --------------------------------------------------- Basically, I approached 4 girls in 1 day. Not bad for someone who is shy. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Observation:
Yes, I know that I did not close or anything, but I am getting comfortable in approaching. It over between, girl 1 and I. NEXT! I have no clue why I decided to approach, maybe since I was with someone it made me more confident or the environment, but it was great. I feel little by little that I am breaking out of my shell. Need to keep my speech in check
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Post by MassiveRay on Mar 22, 2011 21:48:25 GMT -5
You're getting the hang of it mate, keep it up.
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Post by chris852 on Mar 25, 2011 22:40:39 GMT -5
Up date " Girl 1 Girl 2 Girl 3 ---------------------- Observation: Learning from my previous experience, I always seem to fuck it up during the text/ phonecalls. Girl (1) lives 30min and I havn't seen a body pic. Girl (2) Live right around the corner ( she seen me before, Picture later to come) and she is alright but has a son. Girl (3) lives in BFE and is hot as fuck. Gentlemen, take your bets, I;ll update you.
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Post by chris852 on Mar 25, 2011 22:47:55 GMT -5
This is girl number 2 original message to me. (fucking stalkers)
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Post by chris852 on Mar 31, 2011 23:04:28 GMT -5
Update:
Approach today at school, went good. Saw her smoking outside, approached her with a simple "what’s up?" Talked about random shit. Before she left, she came up to me and kissed me. We both said to each other at the same time, "What’s your name?" =) Her name Monica. As she turned to get back into school, she asked me what time I'm here ,etc. and whatever. I remember what a poster on this thread said about using my phone as a net. So fuck it, and asked her for her number, she gave it to me (i was so nervous, she needed to repeat it 3 times, mind you, this is the first time I have ever done this, other situations receive all the signals but don’t have the balls to ask). I got it and she left. I pulled the fucking trigger!! ---------------------------------------------- The part that I fucked up: A side note: I have a bit of natural game you can say, my day game, is decent, when I have the balls to approach.
Basically, by the 6th text, I was like “What you up too sexy pants?”
Her next text was like, “WTF, Do me a favor and delete my number”
I was like, “wow, just messing around. Cheer up” Trying to save it A day later I text her again.
>Me: So tell me? Why are you so upset? --__-- Lets have lunch tomorrow
>Her: #1 I have a boy friend #2 I just didn't like how u were talking to me & #3 I HAVE A BF
>Her: lol
Me: Your so funny --__-- #4, I don't know what you are expecting, but I wanted to have lunch not anal sex (Shocking' I know) Dump your Bf? =) #5 what you think of this shirt? I like the color but the patter is mehh. (picture of shirt here) Around 2 at Dadeland, they have a new place I want to try out. Give me 15min you'll be all over me.
I don't expect to her to text back lets see.
I was basically trying something ( Sexy pants) that felt so unnatural to me, but I have read in other people FR . I was like, lets try it: and whatever. My natural self, was like “why the fuck did I just text that”.
Update: add text ---------------------------- Observation: -Be natural. Doesn’t feel right, don’t do it. Follow your guts.
-Save the sexual under tones for when we have established a connection.
-I have learned a lot from the FR in CF and will continued to learn, but when I read something, I have to take notice of the context and the environment it was said/done (Calibration?)
-Should I text her again tomorrow, or should I just drop it? if she doesn't text me back? ---------------------- Regardless, I am proud of myself, manned up for the number and got it. Trigger pulled and target hit.
As for daygame, I need to work on, when my “target” is on the move. Most of my target has been when they are stationary ( Smoking on a bench, just chilling, ect) and I need to approach group of girls, (never done that)
Basically, I need to step out of my comfort zone.
Also, I am kinda pissed because she was hot as fuck. 9/10.I was trying something new, that went against me and it back fired. But whatever, lesson learned, moved on. My over all day, was great. ----------------------------------- As for my POF contacts.
Doing OK, I'm talking to the 2 girls ( the one who lives right around and the one who lives in BFE) Going to try arrange something this weekend. --------------------------------- In general I'm making process.
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Post by chris852 on Apr 12, 2011 21:14:39 GMT -5
Sorry, for the lack of update guys. Nothing much has happen.
Saw the girl that I mentioned above again. Shit went down real quick. She just got up and left.
In general AA has been kicking and its in high gear. -------------------------------------------------------------- Some notes and observation.
I'm going back into speech therapy, need to get rid of this speech problem I have once and for all. When I re met up with the girl mentioned above, I stuttered a bit.
My day 1s are outstanding, my day2 are horrible. Now that I think about, its because in my day 2 im still in interview, For me, day 1 im in interview mode while flirting and kinoing and neggin, days 2, I need to cut that shit out. What is where I lack.
In general, I noticed that when I' M out and about with a random girl that i don't give a shit about, im like 10o times more out going. like it seems like the AA disappears. (social proof?) and they seem to be into it.
For example; Met up with an ugly girl from class, in the school library ( FIU, FTW! lol) we started talking and what not, they was a cute girl that was right next to us, started talking to her like nada. she was into it. I got close to her and was , " ( Like oh shit, what you doing on the computer, Journal? let me read)" lol. her bf came and shit so I back off. Later on I passed them, and she was giving me hard eye contact.
Its seems like I always get a taste, but never a bite.( Get numbers, we talk, either I fuck up or after a few days, they get disinterested) It get quite frustrating) it has happened to all my POF. Until the next update, guys. =/
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