Post by ceoarob on Jan 23, 2011 21:44:44 GMT -5
This was posted a while back on RSD. But it's still pretty important. It outlines the simplicity of my game.
Most of the stuff that you're going to come across in this game is just textbook.
This is a story that happened to me one day
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LR: 2008 - "Let's just be friends" 2010 - "Fuck me Alexander"
My Bio? Irrelevant.
About me: I keep a journal, but I don't really post much of my FRs/LRs just because I don't feel like it. There's nothing that "exciting" about it all. However, this was a reminder of how much I've changed in the past 2 years ever since deciding to do this hardcore.
This isn't as much of a traditional LR as much as it is just a reminder of how far I've come. I hope that this serves for a lot of the younger guys that are coming into this entire "game" deal and hoping to get laid.
In 2008 (whenever I was still full blown chode but JUST getting into "game"), I hung out with this girl LF and I had a "crush" on her, lol. Full blown chode - I would call her every night, we'd talk about life, spirituality, etc. Sadly, I would skirt around the subject of sex because I thought that it "wasn't proper to do so" - that's how 14 years of Christian schools fuck you up.
We were hanging out one day in 2008 before school started and I asked her,
"LF, do you like me?"
"Yeah Alex, I do...you're such a great friend"
"Yeah, but I mean...do you like me as more than that?"
"Ummm...well...you're really fun and all, but let's just be friends"
In my chodeliness, I was very devastated by everything, so I was probably sad about it for a week, and probably beat myself up.
What was wrong with me? Well, I was too afraid to actually touch girls. I didn't know that girls enjoyed sex - I was raised to believe that it was WRONG to enjoy sexual activity. I didn't know that girls were friendly and I believed that I had to put a girl on a pedestal in order to get her to "like me".
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Little known to me at the time, if I would've dated this girl at the time, then I would've GREATLY fucked up what was in store for me.
Skipping forward to 2009,
I traveled to different nations, partied in International waters, threw parties, met countless men and women, had thousands (if not tens of thousands by now) interactions with people. Not all of it was "cold approaches" I don't even use that term anymore, it's just simply socializing to me.
I learned that all people are friendly. Girls enjoy sex, and most importantly, I started realizing that "girls could like me for me".
I would then proceed to attend the Number 1 party University in the USA where I would have every pre-conceived notion about myself, women, dating, and sex turned up on it's head and destroyed forever.
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Skipping forward to 2010,
After being in this HARDCORE for a year and a couple months of debauchery, countless parties, and just craziness all over, I decided to take a break and recharge myself spiritually.
Going out hasn't been one of my priorities as of late. I hit this shit hardcore for a year and have the adventure stories, lays, etc to count for it. I just needed time to get my life in order.
It was time to start my business.
It's something that I've always wanted to do, but never actually got to it. I've been working on this pretty much non-stop since May 2010.
Since then, I've worried about, "Has my 'skill-set' disappeared? Have I gotten bad with women? Do I still have 'it'?"
Well, today was just a reminder of: 1) How far I've come and 2) How easy/fun this shit is.
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I got a call yesterday from LF. The girl that I "had a crush on" in my chode days. She facebooked me and said, "Alex...I need someone to talk to...can you call me?"
Now, I've been out of contact with 99% of my high-school friends. It was a bridge I burnt whenever I graduated and I don't really care too much for them. In my mind, I was like, "Fuck...she wants me to be her emotional tampon for some issue she's having".
However, I something sparked and I was like, "You know what, fuck it. I haven't talked to anyone in my high-school in 2 years, lets have some fun with this."
I'm walking outside and putting this girl's number in my phone and the funniest thoughts start going through my head.
Thoughts like,
"Dude, you're going to fuck up."
"She already LJBF'd you 2 years ago, stop bro"
"You haven't been in field for the longest time...you've lost it bro"
Well, I basically say to those voices, "Yep...fuck off" and I hear the dial tone.
"Hello?"
"Hey, LF...what's up?"
*Enter [BEASTMODE] with Super-Saiyan State* - literally everything that I've learned in the past year came back to me within a matter of mili-seconds.
We're talking and then, all of a sudden, things go sexual. This happened effortlessly. Roleplays helped strengthen the vibe - she was my "naughty little secretary" since I'm starting my business. Once things go sexual, she actually starts trying to change up the frame.
While I start saying some sexual things on the phone, she'll laugh for a bit, then go back to a "social" topic. (How was school this year? Where are you at? Blah blah)
It was really subtle, but I'm like, "NOPE..." and remain unreactive and just keep turning things sexual.
Then, the weirdest thing in the world happened...
I think that it "clicked" in her mind that I'm not a little chode anymore, I'm not going to take shit from anybody, and that I'm not afraid to be "sexual" like I was 2 years ago. HOWEVER, I could literally FEEL her old/expired frame of reference about me bear some weight down whenever we talked.
I just blasted through that with positivity, but even morely just viewing it as a "new girl" that I was talking to for the first time.
NOTE: If you're trying to get with a girl who you've already gotten friend-zoned with in the past, then you've just gotta "bring the rain" and enter [BEASTMODE] on her. It's simple shit. But remember, the longer you've been with this girl/these people, the longer they're going to hold that "old frame" against you, so you've GOTTA break out of it. Yes, you're going to get shit tests about it, but they're easy like any other ST.
When it clicked for her that I'm not a little bitch anymore, I started hearing things like,
"OMG Alex, you've changed"
"Wow...you're really sexual"
"Blah blah blah...you're hott"
The words are irrelevant, it's everything BEHIND the words that counts.
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We met up at Sonic to get Slushies. From there, it was just Textbook stuff.
-Meet up-I see her-Give kiss on cheek
-Pull in
-"God, I've forgotten just how fucking cute you are...come here...."
-Spin-Hug (Forearm UNDER ass...thanks Two Step and Jeffy for clearing that one up. I was always pulling from the spine)
-Put her in my car
-Roleplay
-Drive to my house
-Play one game of air-hockey where loser must give a striptease
-I win because I am superior at air-hockey, but she put up a good fight though - the score was 6-5.
-Bring to my room.
-Start encouraging her (Thanks MTL Madison for that little nugget you shared...making the GIRL feel sexy for doing things for you)
-Bedslam
-Makeout-Fingerblast
-Deal with LMR, Her: "We shouldn't be doing this". Me: "Yeah, you're right..." blast harder.
-"Let me lick it" - I FINALLY remembered to use that line today. I kept on forgetting since I read 9-Ball.
-Lick it
- Condom on my dick
- Before I insert, I tell her in the most commanding voice, "Say...fuck me Alexander" while I'm basically choking her neck and rubbing her tits.
LF: "Fuck me Alexander"
Fade to black.
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Lessons Learned:
1) Shit is still the same...principles still apply no matter what
2) Girl's don't change, I do.
3) I am the only constant.
4) Girls love sex.
5) What is learned can NEVER be unlearned. Only temporarily forgotten.
6) This shit is like riding a bike, you get rusty, but you don't forget how to do it.
The biggest lessoned learned: Once a guy starts getting good at this whole "game" thing, girls don't change and they don't get "easier" the guy simply just becomes more attractive.
This is specifically for the younger guys just to show that change CAN happen in a short period of time. If girls seemed "hard" to get back in the day, they'll get easier the more the dedicate yourself to becoming an attractive guy.
It's not that they become "easier", you just become more "attractive".
What next for me?
Back to business and Insurance.
Cheers.
-AR
Most of the stuff that you're going to come across in this game is just textbook.
This is a story that happened to me one day
------
LR: 2008 - "Let's just be friends" 2010 - "Fuck me Alexander"
My Bio? Irrelevant.
About me: I keep a journal, but I don't really post much of my FRs/LRs just because I don't feel like it. There's nothing that "exciting" about it all. However, this was a reminder of how much I've changed in the past 2 years ever since deciding to do this hardcore.
This isn't as much of a traditional LR as much as it is just a reminder of how far I've come. I hope that this serves for a lot of the younger guys that are coming into this entire "game" deal and hoping to get laid.
In 2008 (whenever I was still full blown chode but JUST getting into "game"), I hung out with this girl LF and I had a "crush" on her, lol. Full blown chode - I would call her every night, we'd talk about life, spirituality, etc. Sadly, I would skirt around the subject of sex because I thought that it "wasn't proper to do so" - that's how 14 years of Christian schools fuck you up.
We were hanging out one day in 2008 before school started and I asked her,
"LF, do you like me?"
"Yeah Alex, I do...you're such a great friend"
"Yeah, but I mean...do you like me as more than that?"
"Ummm...well...you're really fun and all, but let's just be friends"
In my chodeliness, I was very devastated by everything, so I was probably sad about it for a week, and probably beat myself up.
What was wrong with me? Well, I was too afraid to actually touch girls. I didn't know that girls enjoyed sex - I was raised to believe that it was WRONG to enjoy sexual activity. I didn't know that girls were friendly and I believed that I had to put a girl on a pedestal in order to get her to "like me".
------------------
Little known to me at the time, if I would've dated this girl at the time, then I would've GREATLY fucked up what was in store for me.
Skipping forward to 2009,
I traveled to different nations, partied in International waters, threw parties, met countless men and women, had thousands (if not tens of thousands by now) interactions with people. Not all of it was "cold approaches" I don't even use that term anymore, it's just simply socializing to me.
I learned that all people are friendly. Girls enjoy sex, and most importantly, I started realizing that "girls could like me for me".
I would then proceed to attend the Number 1 party University in the USA where I would have every pre-conceived notion about myself, women, dating, and sex turned up on it's head and destroyed forever.
-----------
Skipping forward to 2010,
After being in this HARDCORE for a year and a couple months of debauchery, countless parties, and just craziness all over, I decided to take a break and recharge myself spiritually.
Going out hasn't been one of my priorities as of late. I hit this shit hardcore for a year and have the adventure stories, lays, etc to count for it. I just needed time to get my life in order.
It was time to start my business.
It's something that I've always wanted to do, but never actually got to it. I've been working on this pretty much non-stop since May 2010.
Since then, I've worried about, "Has my 'skill-set' disappeared? Have I gotten bad with women? Do I still have 'it'?"
Well, today was just a reminder of: 1) How far I've come and 2) How easy/fun this shit is.
---------
I got a call yesterday from LF. The girl that I "had a crush on" in my chode days. She facebooked me and said, "Alex...I need someone to talk to...can you call me?"
Now, I've been out of contact with 99% of my high-school friends. It was a bridge I burnt whenever I graduated and I don't really care too much for them. In my mind, I was like, "Fuck...she wants me to be her emotional tampon for some issue she's having".
However, I something sparked and I was like, "You know what, fuck it. I haven't talked to anyone in my high-school in 2 years, lets have some fun with this."
I'm walking outside and putting this girl's number in my phone and the funniest thoughts start going through my head.
Thoughts like,
"Dude, you're going to fuck up."
"She already LJBF'd you 2 years ago, stop bro"
"You haven't been in field for the longest time...you've lost it bro"
Well, I basically say to those voices, "Yep...fuck off" and I hear the dial tone.
"Hello?"
"Hey, LF...what's up?"
*Enter [BEASTMODE] with Super-Saiyan State* - literally everything that I've learned in the past year came back to me within a matter of mili-seconds.
We're talking and then, all of a sudden, things go sexual. This happened effortlessly. Roleplays helped strengthen the vibe - she was my "naughty little secretary" since I'm starting my business. Once things go sexual, she actually starts trying to change up the frame.
While I start saying some sexual things on the phone, she'll laugh for a bit, then go back to a "social" topic. (How was school this year? Where are you at? Blah blah)
It was really subtle, but I'm like, "NOPE..." and remain unreactive and just keep turning things sexual.
Then, the weirdest thing in the world happened...
I think that it "clicked" in her mind that I'm not a little chode anymore, I'm not going to take shit from anybody, and that I'm not afraid to be "sexual" like I was 2 years ago. HOWEVER, I could literally FEEL her old/expired frame of reference about me bear some weight down whenever we talked.
I just blasted through that with positivity, but even morely just viewing it as a "new girl" that I was talking to for the first time.
NOTE: If you're trying to get with a girl who you've already gotten friend-zoned with in the past, then you've just gotta "bring the rain" and enter [BEASTMODE] on her. It's simple shit. But remember, the longer you've been with this girl/these people, the longer they're going to hold that "old frame" against you, so you've GOTTA break out of it. Yes, you're going to get shit tests about it, but they're easy like any other ST.
When it clicked for her that I'm not a little bitch anymore, I started hearing things like,
"OMG Alex, you've changed"
"Wow...you're really sexual"
"Blah blah blah...you're hott"
The words are irrelevant, it's everything BEHIND the words that counts.
----------------------
We met up at Sonic to get Slushies. From there, it was just Textbook stuff.
-Meet up-I see her-Give kiss on cheek
-Pull in
-"God, I've forgotten just how fucking cute you are...come here...."
-Spin-Hug (Forearm UNDER ass...thanks Two Step and Jeffy for clearing that one up. I was always pulling from the spine)
-Put her in my car
-Roleplay
-Drive to my house
-Play one game of air-hockey where loser must give a striptease
-I win because I am superior at air-hockey, but she put up a good fight though - the score was 6-5.
-Bring to my room.
-Start encouraging her (Thanks MTL Madison for that little nugget you shared...making the GIRL feel sexy for doing things for you)
-Bedslam
-Makeout-Fingerblast
-Deal with LMR, Her: "We shouldn't be doing this". Me: "Yeah, you're right..." blast harder.
-"Let me lick it" - I FINALLY remembered to use that line today. I kept on forgetting since I read 9-Ball.
-Lick it
- Condom on my dick
- Before I insert, I tell her in the most commanding voice, "Say...fuck me Alexander" while I'm basically choking her neck and rubbing her tits.
LF: "Fuck me Alexander"
Fade to black.
-------------------
Lessons Learned:
1) Shit is still the same...principles still apply no matter what
2) Girl's don't change, I do.
3) I am the only constant.
4) Girls love sex.
5) What is learned can NEVER be unlearned. Only temporarily forgotten.
6) This shit is like riding a bike, you get rusty, but you don't forget how to do it.
The biggest lessoned learned: Once a guy starts getting good at this whole "game" thing, girls don't change and they don't get "easier" the guy simply just becomes more attractive.
This is specifically for the younger guys just to show that change CAN happen in a short period of time. If girls seemed "hard" to get back in the day, they'll get easier the more the dedicate yourself to becoming an attractive guy.
It's not that they become "easier", you just become more "attractive".
What next for me?
Back to business and Insurance.
Cheers.
-AR